Watching Thoughts, Watching TV

Often, we find ourselves entangled in the drama of our thoughts, stuck in a loop, and therefore feeling the emotional sting. To create some distance, try this practice of watching thoughts like a movie on a TV screen. Simply observing them like a neutral party without getting drawn in. Over time, we start to embrace that thoughts are just slide shows, pictures in a borrowed book, like what Misuzu Kaneko writes in her poetry. She lived almost more than 100 years ago yet her wisdom remains timeless.

Beautiful Town, by Misuzu Kaneko

Suddenly, I recall that town—
the red rooftops along the river bank;

and then, on the waters of that broad blue river
a white sail—quietly, quietly moving;

and on the grass of the riverbank
a young man, an artist
idly staring at the water.

And I? What was I doing?
When I think I can’t remember,
I realize it was all a picture in a borrowed book.

Guide: Noelle Lim

Image credit: Catherine Heath, Unsplash

Disengaging From Rumination

Rumination is the source of stress. Thinking, thinking, mental chatter. Perhaps useful when trying to solve an external world problem, but not so when we’re judging our inner world experiences such as thoughts and feelings.

In mindfulness we recognize that thoughts are like like random photo-bursts or mental events and so we don’t have to cling on to them nor need to take them as the absolute truth. The invitation is to mindfully watch thoughts like sitting at the bus stop watching cars come and go without engaging with them. Until when we are feeling more calm do we only look at thoughts that really need our attention. We end the practice with writings by Rumi.

Be empty of worrying.

Think of who created thought!

Why do you stay in prison when the door is so wide open?

Move outside the tangle of fear-thinking.

Live in silence.

Flow down and down in always widening rings of being.

Guide: Noelle Lim

Duration: 25 mins

Image credit: Eric Han