Patience

Patience

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Patience is a choice we make, moment by moment, where we place our mind and heart. It’s deliberately turning toward a gentler, softer place within ourselves, a refuge we can return to when we feel ourselves being pulled by urgency, frustration and threats to our ego. The feeling of saying I don’t need to force this, I don’t need to win this moment, I can let it unfold. Patience frees us from the urge to be right, to be first, to be in control, instead we welcome spaciousness. This space is room for clarity, wisdom and kindness to surface that nothing is permanent and choosing this path is an act of self-trust. May we find that softer place today to welcome patience.

Patience: A Choice We Make, Mike Sansone

In moments tense, when tempers flare,
A crossroads forms, suspended air.
The heart may rush, the tongue may race,
But patience waits — a gentler place — 
A choice we’re free, each time, to take.

Impatience cries out, sharp and loud,
It builds a storm, it draws a crowd. It slams the door, it breaks the thread,
It ignores soft words unsaid — instead,
It sows regret we can’t unmake.

Yet patience, tender, steps between,
It cools the fire, it mends unseen.
It breathes and listens, it holds loving tight,
It trades the urge to win the fight
For love that stronger ties can weave.

Patience isn’t something sold,
Not running dry, nor growing old.
It’s not a gift some merely gain — 
It’s forged through choices, decisions through strain,
Through quiet strength we daily claim.

So when the pressure pulls you thin,
Remember — peace is born within.
You choose the bridge, you choose the break,
You choose the love you’ll give — or take — 
Patience, or pride: the power’s yours.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Letting It Be

Letting It Be

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This is the practice of being, to just be, and letting it be – simply meeting what’s present, and nothing needs to change. If the mind is feeling cluttered, let it be cluttered. If the heart feels pain, let it be painful. No gripping. No pushing away. You’re not trying to fix anything, improve anythintog, or get anywhere. You’re allowing the moment to be the moment, offering yourself a pause to just be. Each moment is enough as it is. You are enough as you are.

To Be, by Mary Walker

To be done with becoming
and simply be,
let go of who you are not
and never were;
let go the hand of the know n,
and of not-knowing.

Let go the hand that has held you.
See it palm up and open,
present and ever-loving,
inviting you now
to know what you know
to go where you’ll go
to be who you know you are.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Curiosity

One of the attitudes we can bring into meditation is open curiosity, with gentleness and care, without judgement.

With each breath, each sensation and thought, embracing nature as each moment unfolds.

What does the breath actually feel like right now?
Where is it most vivid — at the nostrils, the chest, the belly?
What happens when a thought arises — can we notice how it forms, lingers, and dissolves?

This shift softens the mind’s tendency to control, resist or improve.

When Death Arrives, Mary Oliver (extract)

when death comes
like an iceberg between the shoulder blades,

I want to step through the door full of curiosity, wondering:
what is it going to be like, that cottage of darkness?

And therefore I look upon everything
as a brotherhood and a sisterhood,
and I look upon time as no more than an idea,
and I consider eternity as another possibility,

and I think of each life as a flower, as common
as a field daisy, and as singular,

and each name a comfortable music in the mouth,
tending, as all music does, toward silence,

and each body a lion of courage, and something
precious to the earth.

When it’s over, I want to say all my life
I was a bride married to amazement.
I was the bridegroom, taking the world into my arms.

When it’s over, I don’t want to wonder
if I have made of my life something particular, and real.

I don’t want to find myself sighing and frightened,
or full of argument.

I don’t want to end up simply having visited this world.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Allow

Allowing

So much of our moments are spent striving — to be better, to do more faster, to be somewhere else. Meditation offers the opportunity to simply allow what is here to be here.

To allow the breath to come and go.
To allow thoughts to rise and fall without chasing or fighting them.
To allow the heart to feel whatever it feels, be it sadness or happiness — without judgment or rush.

Allowing doesn’t mean giving up. It means softening our grip on how things should be, and meeting life as it is. We don’t have to force our thoughts, our feelings and sensations.

Allowing is about letting go what grips us, and letting go unhealthy wants.

Allow, Danna Faulds

There is no controlling life.
Try corralling a lightning bolt,
containing a tornado. Dam a
stream and it will create a new
channel. Resist, and the tide
will sweep you off your feet.
Allow, and grace will carry
you to higher ground. The only
safety lies in letting it all in –
the wild and the weak; fear,
fantasies, failures and success.
When loss rips off the doors of
the heart, or sadness veils your
vision with despair, practice
becomes simply bearing the truth.
In the choice to let go of your
known way of being, the whole
world is revealed to your new eyes.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Steadiness

Steadiness

Meditation is not about strengthening our steadiness muscle – the calm strength that holds us together when life sways. It’s the quiet confidence that we can meet what arises, one breath at a time.

Each time you notice yourself pulled away and choose to return — you are cultivating steadiness. Each breath you meet with gentle awareness strengthens that experience. We learn to trust ourselves and instinct to act decisively.

Steadiness, by Robert J Tiess

Indulging in the moderate,
no oak or pine implores for more
than soil, water, wind, and light.

Trees do not crave outlandish things
or dash in daft and frantic quests
for wealth or fleeting oddities.

They’re quite content residing there,
enduring weeds and mingling roots
between the season’s leaves and sky.

Tree years?  They’re syrup, sticky, slow,
not thin or quick as human whims,
which drift distracted, wish to wish.

I’ve splintered instants, hurried weeks
of shifting dreams, new scenery,
instead of resting, tending growth.

Now oak and pine incline my mind
toward ordinary longer days
reveling in life’s steadiness.

I’ll wander still but love each step.
It’s patience earth is teaching me
to see where change needs constancy.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Remembering To Breathe

Remembering to Breathe

The most profound moments can be the smallest like remembering to breathe.

Each in-breath reminds us we are alive, and we are the masters of our moments. Each out-breath lets us release what we no longer need — the tension in the body, the tightness in the chest, the stories we replay in the head.

When you remember to breathe, you remember to return, to this moment, to this body, to this life. Each moment offers us the opportunity to begin again.

Walk Slowly, Danna Faults

It only takes a reminder to breathe,

a moment to be still, and just like that,

something in me settles, softens, makes

space for imperfection. The harsh voice

of judgment drops to a whisper and I

remember again that life isn’t a relay

race; that we will all cross the finish

line; that waking up to life is what we

were born for. As many times as I forget,

catch myself charging forward

without even knowing where I’m going,

that many times I can make the choice

to stop, to breathe, and be, and walk

slowly into the mystery

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Forgiveness

Forgiveness means releasing the grip that the past has on the present, or softening towards the pain that is felt. The painful sensation could be in the form of disappointment, shame, fear, confusion or hurt. Forgiveness may not come overnight. It’s a practice of letting go, again and again until what once clenched begins to loosen. In that space, we breathe and begin again.

The Rest, Margaret Atwood

The rest of us watch from beyond the fence
as the woman moves with her jagged stride
into her pain as if into a slow race.
We see her body in motion
but hear no sounds, or we hear
sounds but no language; or we know
it is not a language we know
yet. We can see her clearly
but for her it is running in black smoke.
The cluster of cells in her swelling
like porridge boiling, and bursting,
like grapes, we think. Or we think of
explosions in mud; but we know nothing.
All around us the trees
and the grasses light up with forgiveness,
so green and at this time
of the year healthy.
We would like to call something
out to her. Some form of cheering.
There is pain but no arrival at anything.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Gentle Awareness

Gentle Awareness

This practice is about simply softening into the present — gently.

About moving gently into the next moment, to the next breath.

Gentle awareness invites us to meet our experience with kindness, not control. Giving ourselves permission to embrace the next moment with openness.

May we all remember the power of being gently aware.

Aware, by Denise Levertov

When I found the door
I found the vine leaves
speaking among themselves in abundant
whispers.
My presence made them
hush their green breath,
embarrassed, the way
humans stand up, buttoning their jackets,
acting as if they were leaving anyway, as if
the conversation had ended
just before you arrived.
I liked
the glimpse I had, though,
of their obscure
gestures. I liked the sound
of such private voices. Next time
I’ll move like cautious sunlight, open
the door by fractions, eavesdrop
peacefully.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Breath Around The Nostrils

Returning to the breath by noticing the sensations around the nose.

In mindfulness meditation, we often speak of “returning to the breath”, and one way is paying attention to the sensations felt around the nose or nostrils. Feeling the air as it enters, perhaps cool, soft tingling, feeling the muscle of the flap of the nose moving, feeling the air leaving, warmer, subtler. The tiny area becoming an anchor, simply allowing yourself to fee the breath. As thoughts can pull us in a hundred directions, noticing the breath at the nostrils invites us back to the present moment.

By feeling the breath at the nose, we’re not just training attention. We’re remembering the preciousness of life — not in grand gestures, but in the wondrous sensations of each inhale and exhale.

The Breath Is Life’s Teacher, Donna Martin (extract)

Observe me, says the Breath, and learn to live effortlessly in the Present Moment.
Feel me, says the Breath, and feel the Ebb and Flow of Life.
Allow me, says the Breath, and I’ll sustain and nourish you, filling you with energy and cleansing you of tension and fatigue.

Move with me, says the Breath, and I’ll invite your soul to dance.

Make sounds with me and I shall teach your soul to sing.
Follow me, says the Breath, and I’ll lead you out to the farthest reaches of the Universe, and inward to the deepest parts of your inner world.

Notice how you take me in, invites the Breath. Is it with joy… with gratitude…? Do you take me in fully… invite me into all the inner spaces of your home? …Or carefully into just inside the door? What places in you am I not allowed to nourish?

And notice, says the Breath, how you release me. Do you hold me prisoner in closed up places in the body? Is my release resisted… do you let me go reluctantly, or easily?

I am the Breath.
Life is the Musician.
You are the flute.
And music – creativity – depends on all of us. You are not the Creator… nor the Creation.
We are all a part of the process of Creativity… You, Life, and me: the Breath.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Seize The Moment

Seize The Moment

We often hear the phrase “seize the moment,” but in the rush of daily life, how often do we actually pause long enough to notice it?

This is a practice of giving ourselves permission to be in the moment, to embrace whatever that arises. It’s not about escaping life, but stepping into each moment with greater awareness, instead of going through the day on autopilot.

Rumi’s poetry The Breeze is a gentle call not to go into slumber when there’s so much to experience in each moment.

The Breeze At Dawn, by Rumi

The breeze at dawn has secrets to tell you.
Don’t go back to sleep.

You must ask for what you really want.
Don’t go back to sleep.

People are going back and forth across the doorsill
where the two worlds touch.

The door is round and open.
Don’t go back to sleep.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Slow It Down

We live in a culture that glorifies being busy. Productivity is praised. Hustle is admired. But constantly running at full speed comes at a cost: fatigue, disconnection, and a creeping sense that life is rushing by without us really living it. This is a practice of slowing down, using our breath to guide us, reconnecting with the body, and allowing the nervous system to reset.

In a world that rarely pauses, choosing to slow down becomes a quiet act of courage—and a deep kind of self-care.

Right Here, Dane Anthony

Stop moving. Stand in
one place – this place.
Breathe slowly; in, then out. Repeat.

Repeat again. Let your
shoulders sink and relax. Unclench
your jaw; slowly close your eyes.

Listen for your heartbeat; really
listen. Feel it pulse in
your fingertips.

Lessen expectations. Under-do all your
efforts. Requisition the time
for your soul

to catch up. Lean
into the wind; feel it
like a tree and test the ground.

Learn to trust the resilience.
It would be treason
to move quickly – left or right –

from this place. It is alright to be exactly
what you are, who you are, where you are.
Right here, right now.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Art of Watching

The art of watching without analysing, fixing, chasing and suppressing is a radical practice of presence, patience and compassion, allowing us to relate to whatever that arises, the welcomed and unwelcomed, with spaciousness and graciousness.

In mindfulness meditation, to watch is to observe with openness, care and without judgement, letting thoughts, emotions and sensations move along. We simply witness and not judge.

As we settle into stillness, anchoring ourselves to the breath or the body, we begin noticing the stream of experience flowing through our awareness—thoughts, emotions, sensations. Often subtle, sometimes stormy but we just keep sitting in awareness.

When thoughts, emotions, or sensations arise, we note: “thinking,” “feeling,” “sensation“, with the breath as the home base.

As we practice watching, over time, strong feelings lose their grip, and we learn to simply give ourselves space not to react.

Watching is not to control, to escape or to avoid. It is to truly see—and in seeing, to be.

Art of Watching, by Wendy Mitchell

Just sitting and watching in silence

Patience is all that you need

To see nature appear

To appreciate what was a tiny seed

To hear the birds singing happily

To watch them fly around

Yet when they settle near by

Joy, simply abounds

You have to be still, you have to be quiet

And wait just patiently

And then the reward will appear

And be there in front quite graciously.

So patience is a virtue

Or so they say

But for nature it’s paramount

Blink and it will have gone away….

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Just Breathe

When all else fails, breathe.

When we feel not good enough, breathe.

When we’re unwell, breathe.

When we’re stretched,….breathe.

When we’re happy, breathe!

Breathe – Becky Hemsley 

She sat at the back

and they said she was shy,

she led from the front 

and they hated her pride.

They asked her advice 

and then questioned her guidance,

they branded her loud

then were shocked by her silence.

When she shared no ambition 

they said it was sad,

so she told them her dreams 

and they said she was mad.

They told her they’d listen

then covered their ears,

and gave her a hug while 

they laughed at her fears.

And she listened to all of it 

thinking she should,

be the girl they told her to be 

best as she could.

But one day she asked 

what was best for herself,

instead of trying 

to please everyone else.

So she walked to the forest 

and stood with the trees,

she heard the wind whisper 

and dance with the leaves.

She spoke to the willow, 

the elm and the pine,

and she told them what she’d 

been told time after time.

She told them she felt 

she was never enough,

she was either too little 

or far far too much.

Too loud or too quiet, 

too fierce or too weak,

too wise or too foolish, 

too bold or too meek.

Then she found a small clearing 

surrounded by firs,

and she stopped…and she heard 

what the trees said to her.

And she sat there for hours 

not wanting to leave,

for the forest said nothing

it just let her breathe.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Sacredness

In the rhythm of our breath, in the quiet between thoughts, there is something precious—something sacred.

Too often, we rush through our days, our minds still in the past or reaching for the future, forgetting that life is unfolding right here, right now. This meditation invites us to return—to notice the miracle of each moment.

With each breath, it is a reminder that we are alive. A chance to pause, to fully be here wholeheartedly.

Now is the time to know, by Hafiz

That all that you do is sacred.

Now, why not consider

A lasting truce with yourself and God.

Now is the time to understand

That all your ideas of right and wrong

Were just a child’s training wheels

To be laid aside

When you finally live

With veracity

And love.

My dear, please tell me

Why do you still

Throw sticks at your heart

And God?

What is it in that sweet voice inside

That incites you to fear?

Now is the time for the world to know

That every thought and action is sacred.

This is the time

For you to compute the impossibility

That there is anything

But Grace.

Now is the season to know

That everything you do

Is sacred.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Facing The Ego

In life, we often encounter the ego—the persistent voice that judges, compares, and clings to identity or something. The ego could reveal itself in subtle ways: the urge to label experiences as “good” or “bad,” the impatience when the mind won’t settle, or even the desire to meditate correctly.

This meditation offers the opportunities to practice sitting with what we’re uncomfortable with or do not welcome, by firstly acknowledging it as just that, the ego at work.

Mindfulness is not about eliminating the ego but understanding the thoughts and feelings that arise in tandem are merely illusionary, not permanent like Robert Frost’s poetry about nature.

Nothing Gold Can Stay, Robert Frost

Nature’s first green is gold,
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf’s a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Letting It Go

Whenever you notice yourself grasping tightly to something—an expectation, a grudge, or a worry—pause, breathe, release, gently reminding yourself: you can let go, even if just a little.

By letting go, not hanging to things, people and circumstances for dear life, or letting go what no longer serves us, creates space for new possibilities.

Letting go in meditation helps us observe these thoughts without attachment, reducing their power over us.

After all, thoughts, emotions and sensations, while they seem real, are not tangible and are ever changing.

Letting go does not mean suppressing or ignoring thoughts and emotions. It means acknowledging them, feeling them fully, and then releasing them with intention.

Over time, this practice teaches us that freedom isn’t found in control but in our willingness to release.

We are cultivating the ability to move through life with more ease, lightness, and presence.

Let It Go, Danna Faulds

Let go of the ways you thought life would unfold, the holding of plans or dreams or expectations – Let it all go.
Save your strength to swim with the tide.

The choice to fight what is here before you now will only result in struggle, fear, and desperate attempts to flee from the very energy you long for.
Let go. Let it all go and flow with the grace that washes through your days whether you received it gently or with all your quills raised to defend against invaders.

Take this on faith; the mind may never find the explanations that it seeks, but you will move forward nonetheless.
Let go, and the wave’s crest will carry you to unknown shores, beyond your wildest dreams or destinations.
Let it all go and find the place of rest and peace, and certain transformation.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Being Here

In a world that constantly pulls us forward into the next task, the next goal, the next worry—what would it feel like to simply be here?

This mindfulness meditation practice invites us to step away from the rush and rest in presence.

Not trying to fix, solve, or change anything. Just breathing, noticing, and allowing ourselves to gently arrive into the present moment.

When we’re truly here, we soften our grip on judgment and feelings.

This moment—just as it is—is enough.

Stand Still (extract), by David Wagoner

Wherever you are is called Here, 
And you must treat it as a powerful stranger, 
Must ask permission to know it and be known. 
The forest breathes. Listen. It answers, 
I have made this place around you, 
If you leave it you may come back again, saying Here.

No two trees are the same to Raven. 
No two branches are the same to Wren. 
If what a tree or a bush does is lost on you, 
You are surely lost. Stand still. 
The forest knows Where you are. 
You must let it find you.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Noticing The Belly

One of the basic meditation practice is paying attention to the natural rise and fall of the belly as we breath. When we are shifting our attention to this gentle rhythm, we step out of the whirlwind of thoughts and into direct experience. The belly rises—there is breath, there is life. The belly falls—there is release, there is letting go. No need to force, control, or judge. Just noticing. In a noisy world, this simple act of noticing a natural phenomena unravel can be our refuge.

If I had my life to live over again, Nadine Stair

If I had my life to live over again,
I’d dare to make more mistakes next time.
I’d relax.
I’d limber up.
I’d be sillier than I’ve been this trip.
I would take fewer things seriously.
I would take more chances,
I would eat more ice cream and less beans.

I would, perhaps, have more actual troubles but fewer imaginary ones.
you see, I’m one of those people who was sensible and sane,
hour after hour,
day after day.

Oh, I’ve had my moments.
If I had to do it over again,
I’d have more of them.
In fact, I’d try to have nothing else- just moments,
one after another, instead of living so many years ahead of each day.

I’ve been one of those persons who never goes anywhere without a thermometer, a hot-water bottle, a raincoat, and a parachute.
If I could do it again, I would travel lighter than I have.

If I had to live my life over,
I would start barefoot earlier in the spring
and stay that way later in the fall.
I would go to more dances,
I would ride more merry-go-rounds,
I would pick more daisies.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Beginning & Ending

This practice is about paying attending to the beginning and ending of the breath, or a thought, feeling or physical sensation.

Paying attention to the beginning, before the next moment fully forms, trains the mind to be open to different possibilities, and then the final exhale directs the mind to let go, to appreciate impermanence.

Beginnings and endings shape everything we do in life. The way we enter a conversation, start a project, or step into a new phase of life. The way we bring closure, let go, pause and transition to what’s next.

What if we practiced honoring these moments with presence? Not rushing past them, but truly noticing.

A Valley Life This, William Stafford

Sometimes you look at an empty valley like this,
and suddenly the air is filled with snow.
That is the way the whole world happened—
there was nothing, and then…

But maybe some time you will look out and even
the mountains are gone, the world become nothing
again. What can a person do to help
bring back the world?

We have to watch it and then look at each other.
Together we hold it close and carefully
save it, like a bubble that can disappear
if we don’t watch out.

Please think about this as you go on. Breath on the world.
Hold out your hands to it. When mornings and evenings
roll along, watch how they open and close, how they
invite you to the long party that your life is.

Guide: Noelle Lim

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Enough

There comes a moment in mindfulness practice when we realize—deep in our heart—that we already have enough. Not because everything is perfect or because we have reached some final destination, but because we have stopped reaching beyond this moment for something else. We are after all human beings, not human doings.

David Whyte’s poem Enough speaks to this gentle revelation:

“Enough. These few words are enough.
If not these words, this breath.
If not this breath, this sitting here.”

In the rush of daily life, we are conditioned to believe that we need more—more time, more certainty, more success, more validation.

This mindfulness practice invites us to pause. To sit. To breathe. And in that stillness, to see what has been here all along, and allowing each moment to unfold as it is.

The act of returning to the breath teaches us sufficiency, shows us pureness.

Each inhale, each exhale—enough. Each moment of awareness—enough. And when we let go of striving, even the gaps and uncertainties in our lives soften into spaciousness rather than lack.

This is not to say we abandon ambition or desire, but rather that we hold them differently, lightly if you will. We move from a place of fullness in an intangible sense. From presence, not restless seeking.

What if, today, you let yourself rest in the knowing that right here, right now, you already have enough?

Guide: Noelle Lim

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